The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
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by: Mystery, Chris Odom
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Released: 2007-02-06
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The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
- ISBN13: 9780312360115
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“One of the most admired men in the world of seduction” (The New York Times) teaches average guys how to approach, attract and begin intimate relationships with beautiful women
For every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Mystery, considered by many to be the world’s greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world’s most beautiful women. Mystery gained mainstream attention for his role in Neil Strauss’s New York Times bestselling exposé, The Game. Now he has written the definitive handbook on the art of the pickup.
He developed his unique method over years of observing social dynamics and interacting with women in clubs to learn how to overcome the guard shield that many women use to deflect come-ons from "average frustrated chumps."
His tips include:
*Give more attention to her less attractive friend at first, so your target will get jealous and try to win your attention.
*Always approach a target within 3 seconds of noticing her. If a woman senses your hesitation, her perception of your value will be lower.
*Don't be picky. Approach as many groups of people in a bar as you can and entertain them with fun conversation. As you move about the room, positive perception of you will grow. Now it's easy to meet anyone you want.
*Smile. Guys who don't get laid, don't smile.
His tips include:
*Give more attention to her less attractive friend at first, so your target will get jealous and try to win your attention.
*Always approach a target within 3 seconds of noticing her. If a woman senses your hesitation, her perception of your value will be lower.
*Don't be picky. Approach as many groups of people in a bar as you can and entertain them with fun conversation. As you move about the room, positive perception of you will grow. Now it's easy to meet anyone you want.
*Smile. Guys who don't get laid, don't smile.
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Product Details
The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
- Hardcover: 240 pages (2007-02-06)
- Publisher: St. Martin's Press; 2007-02-06
- Label: St. Martin's Press
- Studio: St. Martin's Press
- ISBN: 0312360118
- Average Customer Review: based on 161 reviews
- Sales Rank in Books: #6578
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Summary: GET THE NEW VERSION! 2010-02-06
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Summary: Mystery solved this is not that good. 2010-02-06
Comment: Mystery solved this is not that good. I bought this for a friend and he told me it was utterly useless.
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Summary: Not Just for Guys 2010-01-10
Comment: Believe it or not, as a woman, I thought this book was excellent, both as a general read and as a touchstone. I've been able to see through most men's pick up attempts throughout my life (and yes, I've accepted propositions even though I knew what was going on). However, even though I'm now in my early 50s, I still occasionally wonder why men behave the way they do; what is really behind the smile? Much of what Mystery talks about is in keeping with my general observations. It's the specifics that made me nod and think, "Oh, THAT'S what the guy meant last night in the lounge!" Overall, I'd like WOMEN to read this book, not as a way of defense against the PUA, but rather to understand how PUAs look at us.
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Summary: How to be a creep... 2009-12-22
Comment: So let me get this straight...Some guy will walk up to me in a bar,
ask if my nails are real or fake and when I say fake he will say
"I guess they look ok anyway" and turn away from me
and that is going to make me want to immediately
have wild monkey sex with him?
Now I don't know about other women but that is such a
sexy thing to say that it makes me hot just thinking about it!
Keep those insults coming, I'm about to go mad with desire.
ask if my nails are real or fake and when I say fake he will say
"I guess they look ok anyway" and turn away from me
and that is going to make me want to immediately
have wild monkey sex with him?
Now I don't know about other women but that is such a
sexy thing to say that it makes me hot just thinking about it!
Keep those insults coming, I'm about to go mad with desire.
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Summary: This Crap Really Works Which Begs the Question: "What's Wrong With Women?" 2009-12-13
Comment: My interest in this book started with a conversation I had.
CHRIS: "Dude, there's this book. It says to get beautiful women you don't have to be good looking. Just think of all the hot twenty-somethings you've seen with fat, bald middle-aged men."
ME: "Well, actually I NEVER see hot twenty-somethings with fat, bald middle-aged men."
Yeah, you see it in the movies, but it pretty much ends there.
But the book does contain substantial truths. Much of this stuff works- but not in the long-term.
I know that these methods work because I've used them and have seen them used. They work when it comes to GETTING girls. It does not address the issue of KEEPING them. And it doesn't address the concept of finding a potential wife.
It seems geared toward the kind of guy that changes girlfriends like babies do diapers with no thought to the kind of girl he wants to spend the rest his life with.
My friend in college had a philosophy about women that was just like Mystery's. He met a great girl and they dated for several years. The problem is, he was always cultivating multiple relationship options, even when he was in a relationship. That's the kind of thing that attracted her to him, and that's what women like (as mystery admits in the book).
But it's also why she dumped him.
And, realizing that he'd had a good thing, he turned into a hopeless wreck and an alcoholic.
It's an example of how women are attracted to a man who is desired by countless other women, because it demonstrates what mystery calls "S and R" value.
But after a while, she wanted him to become the kind of guy that Mystery says you shouldn't be= "The Nice Guy."
Mystery is right that women aren't attracted to 'nice guys,' but they do seem to want a 'nice guy' for a husband.
My friend's girl was attracted to him because he was a 'player,' but after the fact, she decided she wanted him to be something else.
It seems that what women are attracted to and what they look for in a husband/ long-term relationship are two entirely different things.
How to deal with this?
Mystery doesn't provide an answer.
I've seen mystery doing his thing, and women find him fascinating because he wears strange clothes, paints his fingernails black. His act is moronic- and it works.
PERSONAL BEEF
Mystery says that you can get women to notice you if you grow a ponytail, wear weird jewelry, and a fuzzy pimp hat. And pierced ears. He also says "don't try to act tough."
Basically, he's telling your to look and act a bit effeminate, androgynous.
In other words, "don't act like a real man."
It's very sad, but women do go for this kind of stuff nowadays.
But I can't bring myself to look and act like a moron to land hot chicks. Guess I'm destined to be alone.
CHRIS: "Dude, there's this book. It says to get beautiful women you don't have to be good looking. Just think of all the hot twenty-somethings you've seen with fat, bald middle-aged men."
ME: "Well, actually I NEVER see hot twenty-somethings with fat, bald middle-aged men."
Yeah, you see it in the movies, but it pretty much ends there.
But the book does contain substantial truths. Much of this stuff works- but not in the long-term.
I know that these methods work because I've used them and have seen them used. They work when it comes to GETTING girls. It does not address the issue of KEEPING them. And it doesn't address the concept of finding a potential wife.
It seems geared toward the kind of guy that changes girlfriends like babies do diapers with no thought to the kind of girl he wants to spend the rest his life with.
My friend in college had a philosophy about women that was just like Mystery's. He met a great girl and they dated for several years. The problem is, he was always cultivating multiple relationship options, even when he was in a relationship. That's the kind of thing that attracted her to him, and that's what women like (as mystery admits in the book).
But it's also why she dumped him.
And, realizing that he'd had a good thing, he turned into a hopeless wreck and an alcoholic.
It's an example of how women are attracted to a man who is desired by countless other women, because it demonstrates what mystery calls "S and R" value.
But after a while, she wanted him to become the kind of guy that Mystery says you shouldn't be= "The Nice Guy."
Mystery is right that women aren't attracted to 'nice guys,' but they do seem to want a 'nice guy' for a husband.
My friend's girl was attracted to him because he was a 'player,' but after the fact, she decided she wanted him to be something else.
It seems that what women are attracted to and what they look for in a husband/ long-term relationship are two entirely different things.
How to deal with this?
Mystery doesn't provide an answer.
I've seen mystery doing his thing, and women find him fascinating because he wears strange clothes, paints his fingernails black. His act is moronic- and it works.
PERSONAL BEEF
Mystery says that you can get women to notice you if you grow a ponytail, wear weird jewelry, and a fuzzy pimp hat. And pierced ears. He also says "don't try to act tough."
Basically, he's telling your to look and act a bit effeminate, androgynous.
In other words, "don't act like a real man."
It's very sad, but women do go for this kind of stuff nowadays.
But I can't bring myself to look and act like a moron to land hot chicks. Guess I'm destined to be alone.
This is a far better version of the same book with new content and with many sections being rewritten and easier to understand.
This is the classic, but its now outdated.