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The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
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“One of the most admired men in the world of seduction” (The New York Times) teaches average guys how to approach, attract and begin intimate relationships with beautiful women
For every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Mystery, considered by many to be the world’s greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world’s most beautiful women. Mystery gained mainstream attention for his role in Neil Strauss’s New York Times bestselling exposé, The Game. Now he has written the definitive handbook on the art of the pickup.
He developed his unique method over years of observing social dynamics and interacting with women in clubs to learn how to overcome the guard shield that many women use to deflect come-ons from "average frustrated chumps."
His tips include:
*Give more attention to her less attractive friend at first, so your target will get jealous and try to win your attention.
*Always approach a target within 3 seconds of noticing her. If a woman senses your hesitation, her perception of your value will be lower.
*Don't be picky. Approach as many groups of people in a bar as you can and entertain them with fun conversation. As you move about the room, positive perception of you will grow. Now it's easy to meet anyone you want.
*Smile. Guys who don't get laid, don't smile.
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The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
- Hardcover: 240 pages (2007-02-06)
- Publisher: St. Martin's Press; 2007-02-06
- Label: St. Martin's Press
- Studio: St. Martin's Press
- ISBN: 0312360118
- Average Customer Review:
 based on 150 reviews
- Sales Rank in Books: #484
Avg. Customer Review:
9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
Customer Rating: 
Summary: Recommeneded for Pick-up Artists in training 2009-06-28
Comment: Out of all of the books and programs I've bought on seduction and PUA, the Mystery Method is by far the most systematic, on-target book of techniques I've read. There are other good how-to books on the subject, but this one stands apart.
The Mystery Method breaks down the various phases of an interaction from first meeting a woman to following up with a day 2 and then closing the deal. Each phase of the progression is covered in detail so you understand what is happening, why its happening and what to do to transition from one phase to the next.
I was skeptical at first because the book seemed to take something a fluid and dynamic as a conversation and essentially apply a programming mentality to it. I realized that you can program conversations with certain body language and phrases that help steer the conversation. You keep pushing one phase into the next until you get a desirable outcome.
In some ways the Method can take the fun out of meeting women because you're thinking about how to transition from one phase to the next, but eventually I stopped thinking about that and just enjoyed the interactions. I guess I could say I "internatilized" the techniques to a degree that I was just going what I was taught without having to think about it. That took a few months and a lot of practice, but eventually I was having more success with women.
Highly recommended for PUAs in training.
0 of 0 people found the following review helpful:
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Summary: Great for pickups only 2009-06-14
Comment: I read this book and I would give it a solid 4 out of 5 stars. Remember that this book is ONLY good for picking up women. This is not good for keeping a woman interested and maintaining a long-term relationship. I would recommend this book to anyone interested in picking up women at bars and clubs. I used the techniques in this book and yes they work. But all of these techniques take practive. In a couple of weeks you can improve your game.
Very highly recommended but I was turned off by the last 20 pages about phone technique because I thought it reduced the Challenge aspect of the relationship. If you want a book on maintaining long term relationships get Doc Love's 'The System.' It is the best out there for it. But the Mystery books is very good and very thorough.
0 of 0 people found the following review helpful:
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Summary: good material for meeting women but not keeping them 2009-06-06
Comment: I think this is a great book for meeting women. It has a lot of good tips on how to do it as well as the mindset you need to make it happen. Meeting women is easy. The problem is keeping women. If you're looking for something that will last you more than a night or two, this is not the best book to get. If you're just looking to run a lot of numbers though, this is the book you are looking for.
0 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
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Summary: Learning to become a pick-up artist. 2009-06-04
Comment: This is a book about how to get women into bed. The theory is that you should pretend to be uninterested in the woman. When a man is perceived by a woman to be hard to get, he will appear more desirable to her.
A woman wants to reproduce (this is her biological and evolutionary instinct), and she will tend to choose, whether consciously or unconsciously, a mate that will offer her security, protection, and a healthy offspring. This means that a woman would bed a man who appears to be strong, self-confident, mature, intelligent etc... According to the author, you don't have to be any of these characteristics -- you just have to appear to be. A man can therefore trick a woman into believing that he is the perfect sexual mate. This is how this is done:
1. Take care of your health. Look healthy and smart. Good health will make you feel good about yourself and will give you self-confidence. It will also make you appear as a good candidate to a woman's reproductive needs.
2. Make the woman believe that you are wanted by other women. Notice how married men, for example, get picked on more than single men? This can be achieved by walking in a bar with two women in your arms, or sitting with a group of women. Make the women you want to bed feel like she is no better than the other women present. This will tend to make her want you more (you become a challenge to her). You can also try to flirt or compliment her friend, making the woman you want to bed feel less desirable.
3. Always be the leader of the pack. If you are sitting amongst men, make the woman you want to bed feel like you are the center of the group. You must appear more important than the other men present.
4. Always act with indifference. Don't stick your tongue out and make it obvious that you want to bed her.
5. Practice. Practice. Practice. You must practice in the field, and don't get offended or turned off with rejections or wrong numbers. Practice makes perfect.
6. Never boost at how many women you have bedded, lest this will haunt you and smite thee!
The author does talk about safe sex and the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. He also talks about loving the women you bed. In other words, the author is trying to tell us that women are not just meat.
Should you read this book? If you really want to have sex with as many women as possible, and don't really care about her feelings, sexually transmitted diseases (condoms don't protect you against all sexually transmitted diseases), risk of pregnancies (again condoms are not 100%), using dishonest tactics, and not caring about your reputation (guys have reputations too don't they?), then yes, by all means, go ahead and read this book. Ask yourself this first: Is it better to have sex with 10,000 different women, or with the same woman you love 10,000 times?
0 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
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Summary: Ok but limited 2009-05-21
Comment: Mystery specializes in teaching a certain technique that definitely works, but I didn't like the act.
I felt like I had to be someone else in order to be successful with his technique. Plus I feel that it was limited to a certain personality type that responds to his technique.
I don't want to be a pick up artist, I just want to meet women that I like. I had much more success with David Denagelo's Approaching Women and Starting Conversations DVD Program by David DeAngelo and Mr. L. Rx's Dating To Relating - From A To Z: (A Man's Guide To Understanding Women) techniques.
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